Women over 50 dating
Corollary: there’s a growing interest in men for dating older women. Hey, this is an article for women over 50 and we KNOW why.The hysteria and attitude of women in their 20s and 30s is not appealing.For serious dating, I’ve always been discriminating, haven’t you?It’s always been “hard” to find the right material, so it’s the same game, just played on a new field.
If you’re over 50 and looking, I have some good news. The ratio of females to males increases with each decade, but does it really matter? First, all it takes is one, and a 100% hit is a 100% hit.Marriage ends up being that 6-hour drive to the kids’ house, and he doesn’t want to listen to a ninny talking about the latest sale at the Gap or what a horrible boss she has, or how unfair her life is. We are also unlikely to do the thing men dread them most: make them the sole determination of our happiness.It’s also about the logistics of a well-run life, and he doesn’t want someone who sits on the floor and sobs when the washing machine overflows. (You will see this repeatedly on Internet profiles.) Now here are some of the latest stats from the AARP.Emotional intelligence generally increases with age; this is about “life skills.” Older people are better at dating, as they are at just about everything except a few non-consequential motor skills. We don’t fumble for topics of conversation, faint at the thought of a formal dinner, wonder how to behave at an opera, or think planning a vacation is “hard.” We don’t fall apart when our hose run, and we operate from a deeply centered standpoint, not chasing about the fickle and changing opinions of others. We have lifeskills, aplomb, sophistication, and experience!From experience, maturity, and common sense, sometimes innate, sometimes acquired through the School of Hard Knocks, we interpret reality quickly and correctly. We aren’t run by hormones, which is how many mistakes are made, and the good news, the guys aren’t either.