Orthodox dating how far
Somewhere in between lies OU-JLIConnections, and the now-happily dating Rivka.
Leah Gottfried, creator of “Soon By You,” a witty web series about Orthodox dating, sees the range of options available to Orthodox daters as a net positive.
“A single person looking for marriage is already limited by relying on others to help him or her out,” Ackerman told The Jewish Week via email.
“If I want an ice cream from the store, do I hire a middleman to introduce me to the ice cream? I will go to the store and pick out my own brand of ice cream with my favorite flavor at the right price. If you want action, then you’re best off doing it yourself.” The group has not yet led to any matches, but has over 90 members.
Rivka (not her real name), a veteran of the Modern Orthodox dating scene, thought the “human touch” — rather than the impersonal, algorithm-driven technology that brings people together on sites and apps like JDate and the Tinder-inspired JSwipe — had potential.
As for Rivka, the recent Ivy League graduate on the Upper West Side, the push and pull between dating apps and the “human touch” played out in her own, ultimately successful, search for a mate.
For a short time while she was using JLIConnections, she also had a JSwipe account, which she deleted after a few weeks.
Get Jewish Week's Newsletter by email and never miss our top stories Free Sign Up Her matchmaker is part of a newly launched program called OU-JLIConnections, a partnership between the Orthodox Union’s Jewish Learning Initiative on Campus and the popular Orthodox dating site Saw You At Sinai, which relies mostly on matchmakers browsing online dating profiles.
OU-JLIConnections uses campus Jewish educators who know the students as matchmakers rather than Saw You At Sinai’s randomly assigned shadchans.