Dating after fifty women
No experience, you can discover a great dating site, and the person you've always wanted.
Some people have certain expectations to maintain a lifestyle acquired and if the annual salary of the online dating is not enough then the online dating profile will ignore this and move on to another.
They will make plans with you and cancel at short notice – too late for you arrange to do anything else, but will keep you waiting and they will know exactly where you are -so they are free to do whatever it is they are doing without bumping into you. Make an excuse to meet them at their home at short notice. A narcissist nearly always starts a new relationship before ending an existing one. For instance, if someone says they have their own company, or have had their own company in the past, check with companies house and see what listings they have for them.
Once a narcissist believes that you have committed to them, they will start to be less generous. You might find that what they say is absolutely true, or you may discover a string of failed ventures behind them.
My advice would be to meet face to face as soon as possible. You know nobody in common and have no way of knowing if what this person is telling you is true.
A narcissist will typically want to move things on very quickly.
They are going to push for commitment and exclusivity. If you ask them about their childhood it will typically be one of extremes – either awful to gain your sympathy, or idyllic – it won’t just be normal.
If the person you meet is genuine they won’t mind waiting. If you ask for a reasonable explanation for a missed date, or something you are suspicious about they will not provide an answer, but instead will go on the attack- making accusations against you to undermine you and deflect from any wrongdoing they may have done.
I notice that lots of people who were married for maybe 10 years or less seem to say…we got married early, found out it didn’t work, and then later remarried and have found long term, happiness with their next partner/spouse. ) increase the number of potential men for you, but I think you will see that age is only a number, unlike it was, say if you were 30, dating a 20 year old. Go on dates, but don’t force the serious relationship.
What I also notice is that I don’t seem to hear any/as many happy stories about people (like me) who were married 20-25 years, got divorced, and then found happiness/ marriage, etc again. I have always believed that 50’s is in fact, no-man’s land, whether you are single, married, divorced or widowed, the reason being that you aren’t really young anymore, but you aren’t old either. I am me and all I can do is live life to my potential. The thing that bothered me most about your email is this part: You write: “found happiness/marriage etc.
I may be generalizing but do you see the same thing? If in your 40’s, it seems OK to me to date guys in their 30’s, 40’s or 50’s. Guys in their 30’s are definitely out, guys in the 40’s might work, but they might want women in their 30’s or 40’s, guys in their 50’s definitely want girls in their 30’s or 40’s, and guys in their 60’s are just too old. Being new at this, I’m going to go for just being my Gosh darn self and if someone wants to date me, great, and if they think I’m too old, then so be it.
It’s all about believing you have a lot to offer someone, which I do.